Last night was a tough one for us to face our next journey in life. Probably, the toughest one so far. We had a tough conversation related to our appointment yesterday. Once again, it involved my brother.
Briefly, I had to meet my girlfriend for a dinner last night. But, my brother didn't come home at time after he finished playing soccer. As a result, we just left home from Tangerang late at seven o'clock and arrived at Jakarta at 8.15PM.
I was very surprised after I met my girlfriend last night and she felt very upset and was mad at me. The point is: I broke promises.
Well, I know I was wrong for the delay, but that was with condition. And I also understood of my girlfriend's worry for our future life and relationship. This has to be cleared between us, and among our whole family.
Despite of awkward, miss-communication, etc…. I found that my girlfriend missed me so much for she said that she needed to spend some time with me, even just to have a dinner. I also believe this can be our learning process to face our real life after the marriage. I know this is not easy, and I hope she feels the same as I do. I am also grateful for this had happened to us before our marriage, so that we will be much more ready when we are married.
