Monday, August 22, 2022

Gak Nyantai

So I, my existence, has made people around me become "gak nyantai", due to very simple stuffs like taking shower after exposed in outside during the pandemic, screen-time for my daughter, and other small things.

Logic is simple, not taking shower after exposed activities outside means you are having high probability of carrying the dangerous viruses into your house, which endanger yourself, your family, a 4yo baby girl. Too much shower makes you sick. "Too much" here is only adding ONE more shower. Alternatively, you can re-arrange your shower time if you don't want to add another cleaning process. But cannot.... "Gerah... Gak betah..." Wah kalo gitu i can't argue no more. Just "ngalah" aja.

Screen-time for my 4yo daughter. Am I being too hard on my daughter for giving her only weekend or holidays for screen-time? If am not mistaken that Bill Gates himself doesn't allow his children to be exposed too much in gadget. Psychologist, scientist, researchers, doctors, some of celebrities, and other public figures has shown us lots of example of how dangerous a high exposure of gadget to kids nowadays. Am I being too strict for providing leeway ONLY on the weekend/holiday? If so, I don't know what to do to help my daughter from being exposed too much on gadget.

I think I have set my standard of "nyantai" properly. When you get less-discipline, there's a room for bad things to come. It's about time to happen, but I don't want it happens, of course.

#justNotAFineDay